tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post1869696784242277174..comments2024-03-23T15:28:07.546-07:00Comments on The Barreness: Did I say too muchUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-32594726182264408232012-09-24T05:48:58.414-07:002012-09-24T05:48:58.414-07:00Also not offended (even as the born without a uter...Also not offended (even as the born without a uterus example ;)!) That is such an extreme option for only the extreme ends of the spectrum :) well done for sticking up to your many doctors.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-28693068196091753372012-09-22T14:20:35.367-07:002012-09-22T14:20:35.367-07:00I was not offended at all. And I hear you on docto...I was not offended at all. And I hear you on doctors giving up on you. I am going to Texas today to see my oncologist because he is a good doctor, and I refuse to change at this point. he never writes off any of my concerns, and always makes me feel valid and listened to. <br /><br />I am so sorry you've gone through all these hard things, but I am glad you remember that this is not you fault. At all.Nicolehttp://nicoleciomek.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-11906828395651604382012-09-22T11:54:08.692-07:002012-09-22T11:54:08.692-07:00Stopping by from ICLW. I loved the last two paragr...Stopping by from ICLW. I loved the last two paragraphs in your post. There are so many things that we can do try and get pregnant and it is easy to get lost in that. Sorry about all that you have gone through. <br /><br />ICLW #3Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01994163573776780090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-81188963075238634792012-09-21T20:48:54.137-07:002012-09-21T20:48:54.137-07:00This is a really good post.
It made me remember...This is a really good post. <br /><br />It made me remember going to a knee specialist who referred me to a surgeon. The surgeon looked at me - mid-30s, slightly over-weight, not an athlete (not anymore, anyway), and said "do you have to be able to run?" Argh! An easy out. <br /><br />And I think that's what's behind a lot of people's standard responses to us. They don't think - they offer what is easiest for them to say, not for us to hear.<br /><br />Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-69046535824638999702012-09-21T20:27:20.602-07:002012-09-21T20:27:20.602-07:00I'm not offended either. Was thinking heavil...I'm not offended either. Was thinking heavily and had been distracted greatly with my own emotions and history... <br />I know how one doesn't want to hear what doctors say- I certainly didn't LIKE to hear it from my doctors either! Although, in my case, I hadn't any choice...well except to find later on that I'd be dying - so...damned if you do, damned if you don't...that's my motto to remind myself. :P <br />HUGSWolfershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12937704236275533865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30185283.post-53990032962715970792012-09-21T09:35:16.123-07:002012-09-21T09:35:16.123-07:00don't worry... we're all struggling throug...don't worry... we're all struggling through our own histories and judgements and emotions and worries with all of this. I can't speak for anyone else but I don't feel offended. sometimes I think people look at us (using donor sperm) and think that we're pushing it too far or doing more than nature intended. I don't know how to respond or think about that but all I can say is that it's the right decision for us - and there will be other right decisions for others that I can't fully understand or wouldn't choose. <br /><br />feeling a bit more free from all that is one of the few nice things that infertility has brought me.alloallohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00715244809039724227noreply@blogger.com